1 step forward, 1000 steps back - part 2

[mdu]

I don't know about all of this. H has pulled way back. He almost always texts me 'good morning, have a good day', not today. As I mentioned, he didn't text me at all Saturday or Sunday, except one text Sunday night regarding a kid logistic item.

I'm not sure how much more of this I can take. He's obviously not fully committed to me and how am I supposed to take OW in the office with him right now? It's insane.

I looked back at my posts over the last 2 months and H has been saying that he wants to reconcile pretty much from the getgo. But it's the same pattern over and over where whenever it comes down to brass tacks he balks.

At a minimum I feel he should be reaching out to me --- in some way comforting me that he's still with ME even with OW in such close proximity. I am frankly appalled that he's just leaving me to deal with this on my own --- yet says he wants to reconcile? Just doesn't add up at all. Why does he keep saying that he wants to reconcile but then won't show it? Is this normal? Doesn't seem normal at all. Seems like someone who doesn't really know what he wants and keeps stringing me along as his 'Plan B'.