I think the lies bother me because she excludes me and the time we spend together. I know it's pride on my part but it makes the separation and the exclusion from her life fresh each time. I also realize that I should just ignore that and look at her actions. By Sandi's rules even if I don't believe what she is saying and half of what I see the half I see is that she wants to be at home as a family and she wants to spend time with me. Her actions are also different, for example when I went to the grocery store she never use to come. I asked her the other day if she wanted to go with me and she said sure. I'm trying to understand her needs
