Thanks so much bashy. I appreciate it. I guess our divorce isn't technically final for another couple months because we are in some waiting period it seems called nisi. Even though the Judge granted us the divorce I guess it's still not final. At least that's the way I understand it to work here in MA. Ours was an uncontested no-fault divorce and best as I can tell that's how it works in our state. Not that I am very optimistic things will change but I guess it's not over yet after all. I thought once the Judge granted the divorce at the hearing that that was it. I will keep you all posted. Thanks again bashy.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14