yes... i know he has stalled & its a pattern for him.
yes, he made R ending decisions, but not sure how he is getting cake... this RE purchase will make my life easier. I do have to accommodate slightly to make it happen. Initially, he wanted to wipe out our account to accommodate this RE deal, I quietly fought him on that front & won!
Please explain how he is getting everything he wants?... he is not getting me & he is not having sex (with me or otherwise)..... Although, I think I see your point... which is why I have pulled myself off his pant leg & refused a few of his offers to go out. He is merely getting a "friendly business partner"... until further notice.
Whether some of my $$ is in the business or not right now, makes little difference, until I take it all... I cannot buy a house. This will help me to be unstuck. But I am scared of it too.
Sandi... It DOES seem to be a regular convo for him to remind me of how hard his life is & how much simpler & more fun my life is (I have heard it for 20 years!!).... when he does this again next... any suggestions on what to say and how to handle it?
This coming Saturday evening is our mechanic's 50th b'day party. Xbf did make a suggestion that my DD be the DD & for us to go together. That is probably not a good idea either... As much as I am worried about going, I probably should go. and look awesome (sexy) in my new dress. Go, be social, fun & funny ...but not linger much around his side. Maybe leave early??
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M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
