Also keep in mind, mdu, that while your attitudes/behaviors/positive changes may do some things to re-attract your H, *he* is the one who cheated and, therefore, he is the who should be pursuing YOU ... and WILL pursue you ... when he's ready.
No matter how bad of a communicator he is, he is a grown man who won you over once before. He knows how to do it again.
Stay strong. And stay focused on mdu and your changes.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
