ok... so did a lot of physical work with him today, preparing our vehicles & my old house (property) for the bank appraiser visit.
While taking a break from the rain we discussed how he may need to take his salary from the company (retro) & that I should too. Because he will need cash flow to help with his RE purchase. I asked him how his new RE deal affects our personal deal. He didn't seem to think it would change it at all & was looking forward to finalizing it and putting it behind us. He figured we would finalize our deal soon, because he wants to take some of his share of the money to help finance his RE deal. I reminded him that I preferred to finalize our deal before we w/d any funds. This may not happen MY way as his deal closes in 10 days. Too much to do..
During this time, we also went back to our shop and sat in the office momentarily. Again, he got nostalgic .. telling me how great it will be, decorating, time off, etc. I cut him short and said I will believe it when I see it.... and ended the convo as to not indulge in fantasy talk or have desires for R talk.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
