Ah, my friend, you got yourself a tunnel hugger, too. Good times....Not!

I agree, in that the damage is far too great for them to handle and so they do what they now know.....Which is to lash out.

He does have a connection with you. That is so clear. He is practically screaming for you to hear and see him.

I am hoping that he will eventually burn himself out. Or, if you wish, I know people who know people. LOL!

I am so sorry you must continue to endure this from him, Bea. I pray that he goes away after his marriage....far away.