So I went to my coworkers wedding. It was emotional for me throughout different events, but I did enjoy myself.
When I left, I told kids that I would call to tell them goodnight. Called the house at 10:45- no answer. Left them a message. Continued to party with friends.
I return to my room and see this text:
-No call?? I thought you told the kids you would? - I thought you told the kids you would call - well, hope you are having fun.
I did not respond for 2 hours,mostly cause I did not have my phone I responded with I left a message on the house phone.
H: oh,ok. I did not check the house phone H: I just figured you got caught up in all the dancing, alcohol, guys and friends...lol M: lol H: well I wasn't really joking but the lol made it sound better M: I was aware of everything H: what's that supposed to mean? H: haha, nm, I probably don't want to know H: or is there something I should know M: no worries, goodnight ( I had to think the best way to db this, I wrote many responses and felt this was best) H: hahaha, I don't know what that means H:I'm just saying the same things you do...we are still married, so just asking ( which I haven't brought up ow in 3 weeks) H: in case you decided to have someone back to ur room M: I know we're married...goodnight
H continued on for a few more minutes, but I ignored him. Then an hour later he's texting about me going to the bank!
Even though he made me mad, it did put a smile on my face...he still truly cares. Baby step!
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile