We haven't spoken really again but said we would. In the meantime he just told me that he isn't going to change his mind ( about moving back with his family) but there are ' a lot of things we need to talk and agree about first'. My response was ' ok, just remember that this is going to take time and patience for us both and for us to be comfortable. Be patient with yourself and and love yourself'

He said he understood.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home