Bea, I’ve been reading your updates all along. I had one interesting thought this morning. What if you xh is going round two in his MLC? I mean he is cycling through the same phases again. He found the flaws in you again, he thinks you are the problem that his life is not going the way he wanted it, he marries OW trying to prove to himself and everyone else that this what he needed all along, he starts the law suit, trying to fight you over money… It looks like the start of insanity when MLC strikes for the first time.
I’m thinking he is stuck in one of the stages and subconsciously realizing it. Maybe this is why he is going backwards, trying to relive the insanity and hoping to get unstuck. Just my theory though…
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state