No idea on how to do anything privately, and I'm not putting any personal identifying info on here. Sorry, but you can ask away here or on my thread. I have nothing to hide. If it is to tell me to bug off, just do it. Just trying to help.
You'll note that there was no OM in my sitch. Easily could have been though. And that isn't a comment on W, that is a comment on what I did and the way I treated W and the R.
So re: OM, I'm really at the limits of what I can offer. I do think you need to think through having that convo.
I'd suggest looking at posts from Starsky (vanquished OM) and MrBond (vanquished OM and provides tough love for those that want to be victims) and Sandi (gives a perspective you and I don't have).
me: 45 W:45 M 20 years T 22 years S14, S13, S11, D9 BD 2/28/14 D papers served 3/3/14 I moved out 3/15/14 MC start 4/2/14 I moved in 6/2/14 D suit withdrawn 6/30/14
