Hi Sandi... Im not sure. Let me try:

HE said that MY life is easier (comparison).... by saying that, this is button pushing? because this is where it turns into "poor HIM" type comments that lead into me feeling bad/sorry and then it turns into R talk? A circular R talk, that we have had a million times. ...???

If so, then I need to be more careful when he does this... am i right?

Based on yesterday, I didn't get into it too bad... I just mentioned that it was his choice and how I was willing a month ago to make things different. The convo was short & due to time, was rushed.

I don't understand how he can say he doesn't recall my offer...(during a R talk over a month ago, I was pretty clear about getting back together and how we may not have it all together, but together we have it all, and he said he would think about it) GRRR

Last edited by makingmagic; 07/20/14 04:06 PM.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)