How can I be the better choice?

[Mat]

Okay, so try to calm yourself so that you don't act out of panicked emotions.

Vince, I apologise for squatting your thread. Sandi, any way you can look at my thread as well in your own time? Others have been so good in supporting me, but we are all relative newcomers. I am at a crossroads and can't process this on my own, and I have choices to make soon...

Thanks in advance