Glad the car shopping was fun. Now you have choices:-)

This next part is strictly my opinion and I'm sure some will disagree. I don't say his to hurt anyone-again my opinion. I think most WAS do not do any deep self reflection unless they feel they must or they are truly see aware. And that is not immediate. I think the reality is most do *fun* stuff and want to see if a new R or *friend* brings them happiness that they are searching for. I am not saying your h is-just that it is a prevalent trend. In other words, I don't think most are digging deep or trying to see if anything could possibly be wrong with them. It's easier to think it's their spouse or SO. They were emotionally done long before BD-that was a mere formality.

Again, these are just my thoughts. I know you are in a difficult place, however your h has to figure out his own stuff. You focus on you and continue doing things you enjoy. I think you are doing awesome :-)


3 kids
BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
"Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer