fortunately, and unfortunately, h and i own no property, or have any money-plenty o debt though! i own a car worth $5k and that's it. i have just had a friend call me up who found that h is seeing ow, this friend went to school with ow and knows a lot people she knows. apparently ow is a gold digger- she really didn't think about that with h, a major game player, and this would all just be the thrill of the chase for her, and that she would be the driving force behind the big rush, but once the dust settles, and no one cares, she will 'chew him up and spit him out', at the moment he's arm candy, and if he is going into more debt to keep her happy, once the money runs out on his end, she'll get rid of him.
i know its dumb, but i feel sorry for him, and i don't think he'll come back from this, at least not in one piece, he's my h, he's my a*sehat, and the father of our kids, i really do want him to be ok.
i'm on the nsw/vic border, where are you gg(or are we not allowed to ask? sorry if we're not)