So the wife is in her date. I had no idea and did not care where she went she texted me to say where she was and that he was leaving soon and would be a little later then our agreed upon time.
I knew this would happen the first day because I figured OM would give her some grief about her wanting to leave and come home every day.
I am in a mixes place , I am glad she texted me and kept me up to date and volunteered where she was, but I also feel she violated her promise if trying to be home by 6. I guess I will follow DR advice and choose my battles and this one is not worth it.
I was debating asking her to move into the guest room especially while OM was here. I was going to ask not tell.
When I woke up this morning she was already sleeping in there. She said that she feels bad that she has been lying to OM. She Rolf him she's not sharing a he's with me and refuses to share one with him.
She felt it only fair to not sleep in our bed while he is here in the USA.
I am not going to get into any discussion on this topic. She was the one that volunteered what she did and why she got home late.
My only confusion comes from that she hugged and kissed me before she left yesterday and now is acting like I am her brother.
My course if action will be to be this way in return. I feel if I don't ask questions and act as calm as possible while he is here and let her make her own decisions on moving back to our bedroom.
The decision that I really am going to have to plan for is if I find out she is making plans to see him in person again especially after she had said she was going to tell him they could not meet up again for a long time maybe never..,that is when I will have to go in The Last Resort option.
Oh I read almost the entire DR again yesterday. It's amazing how much information I missed the first time I read it it was an eye opener.
