thanks gg, it is so bizzare, up to even a week ago, i recognised some elements of my h, but some weird possession seems to have occurred, the things i have been told over the last couple of days are incredible, and though i knew about a lot of the lies over the last year or so, there is sooo much more...
i think now, h is at a point he has lied so much, it's easier to walk away from his and family, start a new life with ow, rather than face up to all the lies.
even his former best friend(i say former because h hasn't really spoken to him since we s, obviously because he was afraid of being caught out about ow) said last night that everything h has built is a house of cards, and that its only going to a feather to fall and it all crumbles.
and after all of this, i still want be married to the a*sehat!
