I agree with folks above in the way of

"What do you want? What does your life look like?".

Can you accept where your Husband is in his journey? Can you be patient? Can you be on this rollercoaster and still portray the best Busting?

These are serious questions you need to ask yourself.. and darlin.. it's completely okay if your answer is No.

I find that we tend to get frustrated with our partners for not meeting our expectations when in actuality - they have never given us a reason to believe that they would.

Instead we need to accept our reality and if it is something that we cannot or do not want to handle or it is something that defies our growth and who we are as new people - it is up to us to change the situation.

So your husband has stated that he still wants to talk to OW. That he wants to move in but not be romantic.

How do YOU want to respond?

((( )))


M(f): 43
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.