I am also having some difficulty hearing about his life. Things he has done, places he has gone. He is not throwing it in my face. Just things that come up in conversation with the family like ' when I was in...'

In the back of my head, I go straight to ' oh and of course OW was with him'.

I know I need to let it go.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home