Hi cq1, I am really proud of how strong you are being. I don't know why your W is acting like this but it sounds so crazy and disrespectful to you.

If she says she wants space, I say give her all the space you can. Toss her out of the house and let her figure it out. If you have proof she is lying to you then I would just say that, and tell her you cannot put up with it.

Sounds like the stronger you are and the more you keep your boundaries with her the more hope you have to possibly work this out. But it's going to take time and patience.

In the meantime take care of yourself. If you can maybe take a break and get away, do something nice for yourself, spend time with friends and family who can distract you and show you some fun!

Good luck and keep us posted!
Hugs,
Lisa

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.