I won't get back in... I keep pulling myself away, as hard as it is & as much as I don't want to....like an attraction from fire!
It is not healthy for me. AND... I am trying to have some sort of standard for myself.
AS for removing myself from the business... I CANNOT. My name needs to get ON it first. First, unofficially & then officially. I MUST find a way to detach & function for the next year, at least.
I am going to let him catch his breath while his deal closes at the end of the month as there is STILL so much to do (mtg meeting, appraisers, insurance appts, lawyer appts, new business name, town meetings, approvals, etc... and clients... then I will start my approach for my security again. A lawyer is only needed to sign a deal that is 80% written.
He keeps "talking" that he did this for "us" and how it benefits me too.
On the business side, YES... it does benefit me as now we can officially relax & operate comfortably and be able to lock the gates at night & safely too. This location also allows our sales to generate even better than ever. Before, we were overstocked and our inventory was scattered & subject to damage (this kept him up at night). Now he can destress & sleep at night. <<< his stress rolls onto me. He feels I don't stress enough, and it is his burden.
I don't see where he pushed my button & I bit... can you expand?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
