What three things can you do...this week...to break away from this situation with him? What three specific steps can you take to get out of this business?
You take a step forward and, then, five back. I just don't think it's realistic for you to be able to work with this man and detach. Plain and simple.
You said he needed to get this deal in place. Well, sounds like it is. Now, YOU take action. Do you have and attorney. You mentioned you sold lots of vehicles lately. So, money for an attorney??
Watch how this works.
MM detaches by saying she WON'T be going to the party. She spins a bit, but, ultimately, makes a grown up decision to step away from the drug... So, he baits her with...
He says my life is easier. He just pushed your buttons and you bit. Then, we get blah, blah, blah...more of the same...
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I stated that it was his choice as over a month ago I offered for things to be different. He said he doesn't recall me making offers. I then told him that he needs to learn how to cope & balance stress & fun. To inject fun when you can. That is why he is going to take his parents to the family function for 3 hours (to put a smile on several peoples face) & then come back & get prepared to clean up for the appraiser. He is wanting my help tomorrow moving vehicles.... this could have turned into another R talk.... but, it didn't, thank god
He's constipated, he's stressed, he's this, he's that...WHATEVER. We don't care. I'm glad you didn't get into a R talk again...but, I see you getting ready to dive right back into this swirling toilet...round and round it goes.
What ACTION Can ADULT MM take this week to remove herself from this business and give herself a fresh start WITHOUT HIM.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
