Last night...W came over to watch a movie. We watched Noah and ate Taco Bell which I picked up on the way home. Had a good time pointing out all of the inaccuracies in the movie compared to the Bible.
Then she informed me that she would be staying the night! This was a first and I didnt ask her to or even bring it up in any way. I said "oh yeah?" She said "yeah, but Im wearing my chastity belt to bed" and laughed. I laughed too and said "ok". We went to bed and I woke up a bit early today. I remember waking up in the middle of the night and finding myself holding her hand. Never done that before. When I woke up I started scratching her stomach and arms for her. At one point I stopped and pulled her shirt back down as I didnt want her to think that I was pressuring her into sex. Then returned to her arm instead. The next thing I know she was lifting her shirt back up to indicate that she wanted me to keep going on her stomach, so I went back to that...Then it happened. She lifted up her panties for me to put my hand in there!!! I didnt hesitate at all and kind of laughed. So we ended up having sex and it was amazing.
She has a baby shower to go to today and I am at work. We ended up taking a shower together also which hasnt happened in forever either. Did some more talking about apartments and a vacation for our anniversary too. Im not pushing anything at all and am not expecting that this means that we are "piecing" or that she is moving back in. Just saying it was sex that we both wanted and that is a step in the right direction maybe. She said that she wanted to do something after I get off work today too. I said ok and will make it another light casual night. But I am excited about sushi time tomorrow.
I just want to make a quick note to all of you that are still fighting the fight here. It can change and turn around so quickly to a positive. Dont give up and dont ASSUME anything about it. Im not saying that Im the perfect model or anything close, but that should give you all hope as I have made so many mistakes and it is still going in the right direction. Still a lot of work to do for me, but its starting to pay off.
M:33 W:30 T:10 M:2 B/D: 5/27/14 S: 5/28/14 Wife moved back in 7/18/14
