GGG, Not a damm thing you coulda done. You coulda been the vision of perfection in practically every way and he still woulda gone off the deep end of the pool without a floatie.
Personally, I think an affair is a form of emotional abuse and misguided anger/control sent from one spouse to the other.
Yep. In the end, it's their choice how they handle things and it is their responsibility to handle their happiness. Essentially, how you perceive the world around you is how it is.
MLCr's are broken. They try to fix themselves in any number of ways. But directing anger at your spouse is certainly unhealthy for all concerned. Except lawyers. They always seem to do ok in these situations
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
