Pilot, I'm going to jump back in here for a minute. Drop the defensiveness, go back and read your replies to me, to 25, and see how many times you say but.

"You're right, I was <whatever> but..." and then you give a defense for why you did whatever. If you do that here, it's a pretty sure bet that you do it IRL interactions when people don't see things your way.

I think 25 has brought up things that I had, and you defended or brushed those off. If a few people who have been around these boards for awhile are seeing the same things, take note. Stop trying to be right and listen.

This involves (sorry if I'm repeating myself) a lot of work on you and what's inside. Unless and until you're ready to do that, it's all wasted digital space. (can't use the term ink in this venue)

Take it away, 25...


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M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss