Hi heather :-) I've been reading you just not posting a lot and you really sound good. It makes me happy.

I may have described some things inaccurately.

I am ready to leave Sudan. I told H this months ago. I told him I was giving it one more school year ( because I work at the school he kids attend) to resign properly, give the kids time to get used to the move and look for a new place to live and a new school. At the time of telling him this we were not talking about living together again.

That's why it is a year timeline ...

His demeanor is more positive than negative and more ' I am confused' than ' this is what will happen'.

It's so hard to explain ... I hope that made sense....

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home