KGirl - post-move

[KGirl]

I'm trying my best to think of it as a positive and fun experience. But there is a part of me that is PO'd that I even have to do this. We had decided to be a one-car household until we had kids because we could function just fine that way - he drove to work, I took the bus, and then at night we just coordinated our errands and activities. It saved us a lot of money, but now obviously that's out the window. The car was "his" in that he purchased it way before we got engaged and married (and it was during the period of time that we were broken up at the end of college so I had no input or say in it) so he keeps it. Just like he still lives in the house, and has the cat, so nothing has changed for him, but everything has to change for me. I know I shouldn't be resentful because these were choices I made to move out, or not fight him for the cat or for some money for a car, and I know it's not my job to make him see consequences, but I have a hard time believing he'll "wake up" at all when everything remains the same for him, just minus me.