The way I saw it is that I really don't have a choice to go or not... either way same result (me sad)... at least this way (not going) I value myself & not accept his scraps.
MM,
I think this is AWESOME!! You made the decision for yourself and you based it on what's good for YOU!!! NOT HIM OR EXBF!!
Standing OVATION FROM ME :-)
You go girl. Now, do something nice for yourself as a reward...Probably feels weird to opt out. Sit with the weird, it will pass. I promise it won't make or break the rest of your life.
YOU TOOK ACTION! AND, you didn't dwell on the interaction. You didn't come here and tell everyone how EXB was Happy or Sad or Constipated!!
You kept the focus on YOU.
BRAVO MM!!!!
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
