It seems as though his RE offer is accepted. This will be good... I think.

After working late with him. I decided to text him about the family function.

Me: (7:30) Hi.. Thanks for the invite to T's, but probably not a good idea for me to go.

Him: (10 mins later) Ok

Him: (1 min) Your choice.

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The way I saw it is that I really don't have a choice to go or not... either way same result (me sad)... at least this way (not going) I value myself & not accept his scraps.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)