Yes, that's sounds reasonable. So, so tough but perfectly reasonable.

H is already backing way off. It's freaking me out, of course, but I'm trying to keep it together. We had done a few things together with the kids and had a fantastic time and he just sent me a text he does not want to do that anymore because he's afraid it confuses them. I'm not saying that I disagree with him, it's just another painful signal that we're further away than I'd hoped. Also, I can't help but fear that he's backing away because of OW and the newfound potential for that relationship now that she will be so close. I keep thinking "he's going to see what happens with her next week and see if there's still potential for them"


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14