and the hits keep coming, today I went to see my mil, h told her about ow last night, he wants his mother and step dad to meet her. h has had ow come to his house late at night, hide her car in a parking lot and then walk over to his house. I am absolutely broken, I don't think I can take much more, I don't even know what I would say to him when I see him tomorrow when I go to pick up the boys. everything is moving so quickly, its all a blur, we have been separated for four months, obviously he's been seeing her for longer. 25mlc, I haven't seen a solicitor yet as up until this point I saw no need, one because I believed that he wanted time to sort himself out, two because we always said it was about the boys first, and third because up until the last 3 days(and yes I know he's lied in the past) he has never been THIS man, I don't even see a glimmer of who my h was. I don't whether to tell him all that I know, or to simply pick up the boys and take them home. please, I know there will 2x4's coming, but could the blows be lighter, I really just need to know that I'm not alone right now, that others have come out the other side.
