Scorp, I believe what helped turn my situation around was being myself when I was around her. We had a couple dinners together after little to no contact for 4 months. I believe it was during these interactions that she started to see whom I was becoming and the changes I wanted to see in myself. Also I believe, as had been told to me many times, there is nothing more attractive than being a good father to your kids.

Also like has been said, slow and steady, no need to be too eager.

I stayed patient many times when I wanted to try and reconcile too soon. I know how frustrating it is to move at their pace. That is why GAL is important. Keep busy and work on you and keep being a good parent.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15