Back home and my H said he is coming over tomorrow to put shoes on my horse. He is a semi retired Farrier. I told him that he does not have to do my horse or take the garbage. I will have it done. But he is insisting on doing it. Now this is the man for 20 years I've been fighting, bagging, pleading, offering $, sex. You get the idea. He hated doing our horses.He suffered with a bad back frim shoeing. I get it but only the last 10 years. He just did not like doing ours. This is the reason of career change.
I don't get now why does he is want to do these thing? We've ben separated 9 months. He mention in the beginning that he would do things around the house. But that didn't happen due to fighting not getting along and whatever else. We still don't get along great for civil. a lot of eggs shell walking. I guess this is just part of the process? But strange to me.... during all this he will mention getting a divorce then like is just a part of a conversation.
I just agree with whatever he talks about. ..
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.