I forgot how to post my old thread link here, but oh well!
So it seems the theme of things has transitioned into dealing with old wounds, while still marching on through everyday life despite the wreckage we've been left to deal with.
Is there any possible way to do this without any pain, frustration and anger? HELL NO! I think we LB's just make it look easy really!
Im working through a book to help me manage my anger. One thing that has really helped me feel relieved is that unmet needs result in anger! Boy howdy, and Im seeing it too.
I've also been in contact with XB.
Looks like we're back on again....
I may regret this. Or I may not. But my eyes are WIDE OPEN. We've discussed at length over many days the dynamics of our relationship and how our anger issues are playing a big role in our fights.
I think what I really need to figure out and Im obviously really struggling with is if I can handle his expressions of anger and mood swings. I for the life of me can not figure out of he's seriously depressed or just a jerk by nature.
Post away friends! I probably have a few 2 by 4s coming anyway.
