Dealing with ongoing affair -which may now be over

[PeterV2]

Dawgy;
I went through 5 months of hell, Dec 2013 until May 2014. Total rollercoaster ride. At one point early Jan I had a meeting set up with a divorce lawyer. Then W came over and said she was going to end it with OM. So I cancelled my appt.I thought she ended it but then I followed her in March and she met with the OM for coffee and a few passionate embraces and kisses in his car outside the coffee shop. Her rendezvous went on for the month of March until I confronted him.