Is the topic of money touchy, or how you interact with W when discussing money? It reads like you yell when discussing money and when dealing with the kids. Could S12 be reflecting a learned behavior?
Where were you emotionally during this breakdown of R? Very happy? Is the yelling a function of your unhappiness?
Finally, don't let W drink and drive with the kids (and truly, even without the kids). Even if it means making W extremely angry and W threatens to leave forever. Call the cops if needed. You are right, you can't stop her from drinking, but you can keep others safe.
me: 45 W:45 M 20 years T 22 years S14, S13, S11, D9 BD 2/28/14 D papers served 3/3/14 I moved out 3/15/14 MC start 4/2/14 I moved in 6/2/14 D suit withdrawn 6/30/14
