The third goal I'm not going to comment on because I feel like there isn't enough information -- but if she's your wife's sister then she's going to be part of your life for forever so you ought to be treating her like a family member.
Sorry you're here. I don't have any input on substance abuse but you're in the right place and I'm sure someone will have more than just moral support soon.
Best to you.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
