In addition to my other 180's that I have been doing here are the things I am focused on:
1. Really the money thing is a nuclear bomb with W – anytime I raise my voice it freaks her out. When talking about money need to remain positive and non-confrontational 2. Need to stop yelling at the kids – they are only kids and will be slobs - use that energy to pick up after them since this is what happens normally. 3. Need to be nice to more friendly to SIL.
