Riley

I wish you had found this forum earlier b/c you seemed pretty much done when you arrived. 2 weeks of LRT is, well...NOT MUCH.

I'm a veteran and the spouse of an AD soldier. Tri Care DOES cover those medications. Even if they didn't, there's no way you would have to pay the full amount or $500 a month and cheaper alternatives are available. Certainly better than her getting nothing...

I'm very sorry you didn't check on that. iT would have been first on my list. It's not too late now to do that. It's the right thing to do.

For future reference, the "Rules" are just guidelines. They are not one size fits all. Your wife wanted TIME with you but you chose to distance yourself, the exact opposite of what she needed...maybe it was easier for you, but it was not what was called for. The rules are clearly just a gathering of bullet points based on some of MWD's teachings. They are NOT "rules".

Besides, Remember the vow "in sickness and in health"?? They still apply even if the spouse isn't being nice to you. Get her the meds please.

Riley, you sound like a nice guy, even with a spread sheet for cleaning cool .

But She's not making healthy choices right now - b/c of an underlying illness. But what is your excuse?

I haven't seen anyone come here to ask for help, while also rushing to file for divorce so fast. I don't really get it.

You speak of divorcing her as if no damage is done by filing. I think it's your attempt to "call her bluff" but that's just one upmanship and a game. This is marriage and as Wonka said,

this is a marathon, not a sprint. Why the race to the finish line?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change