Hmmmm. Yeah, mdu. That might be a great exercise for you to tackle - developing that concrete list and posting here, especially considering the new developments.
That list will really help define and place boundaries around YOU and your actions toward H from now forward.
Have fun at the concert today!!!
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014