Hey Dev,

My W told me the same thing about two weeks ago.

She said, It doesn't matter if I have sex with a cow, a family member, a friend or anybody because in my heart and mind we are S.

I said, You are your own person and can do whatever you choose to do, I have no control nor have ever had any control over you so it is your life to live.

I am doing the same, choosing to live my life how I want to, at some point our lives may reconnect but only GOD know that.

She said, I glad you are getting your life straight, it is about f-ing time, because you sure wouldn't do it for me.

I responded with I am sorry you feel that way it must have been very difficult to have those feelings while trying to hold on while our M was suffering.

I left it at that and haven't really talked to her since, even though she is staying in the next room two feet from mine.

Hang in there!!


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014