I think you're really on track (no pun intended ;)) with your proposed plan. Knowing my H and yes, what we've observed that works. I'd put my money on your for sure!
Having said that, the one thing I'm hesitating on is how the heck I'm going to suddenly pull off "OW is nothing to me" when clearly, he knows darn well from our convo last night she is VERY much on my mind and an issue to me. I mean won't that seem so incredibly disingenuous? I mean how do I now back off from having already declared absolutely no contact with OW? kwim?
Is it the old "I've had an awakening! And suddenly I haven't a care in the world and OW doesn't remotely cross my mind." How do I pull this off?
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
