There are 2 people, with all their crap, in every R. It's not all you but you're the only one you have any control over.

You're unpacking that big bag-o-crap, that's good.

WE don't usually find self-esteem or happiness within a R. We have to find it within ourselves and take it into the R. Make sense? Other people can't give us those things or take them away.

Keep working. I admire you for your honesty and willingness to do the hard work.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss