thanks G'belle. Thanks for your simple suggestions. It can be that simple. I know.

My life coach/friend suggests: I don't think its a good idea because of where we are... I'm not comfortable going, it would feel strange.... i don't think I'm ready.

^^^^ truthful statements. She sees it as communicating my feelings. Being honest without divulging too much.

I like ..... "I don't think its a good idea because of where we are"... I might say this!

Also, I don't know how to respond, when he hasn't asked again.... I said I would let him know & now I do not know how to bring it up.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)