And then you disagree, and justify, and defend your position and your instincts. If those positions and instincts worked, you wouldn't be here. You're here because you want more (and realize you DESERVE more) than Mr. Can't Commit can give to you, and because you realize that you have some serious co-dependency issues as it relates to him.
So why not stop ARGUING with us, and maybe really LISTEN -- and HEAR -- what we're saying, and apply it?
You've asked me several times "Please teach me the way you taught Pearlharbr." While I can't say that we NEVER disagreed, I can tell you for a fact that I didn't have 1/100th of the frustration and resistance from her that I feel from you here every day.
As I told my son when I finally quit being his flag football coach, after the season, "You're uncoachable."
