I guess the biggest problem that I have right now is that I don't know where OW fits into the picture. They are co-workers who speak every day but she lives 1000 miles away. Their time together is mostly virtual and often supervised by other co-workers. For a time they also spent TONS of time together online in the evenings and on weekends, and that has ceased. The last communication that I had with him directly about OW he told me that she was "infuriated" with him. This was about six weeks ago.
I see what you mean about giving him so many of the things that he wants, but not making any requests of my own. At some point I'm going to have to pull up my big girl panties and address the elephant in the room...What's the deal?
I have not had the stomach to do the LRT or the LLRT. I see that it has worked with people like devastate and wonka. I guess I'm just trying to find the right time....And, as we know, we have lots of time (but should use it wisely). What's the right time with the kids and school? What's the right time with the job (since the company is up for sale) or with my job (since I'm applying for a new one)? So many what ifs and whens...The sun rises, the sun sets, and I stand here frozen, watching the tides shift.
I may be getting closer to the LRT...or my own ILYBINILWY speech. Sometimes I wonder.
