Yes, they do. But mdu you CAN'T keep making the SAME mistake, over and over again. Your anxiety is playing right into your husband's "See how she is?? This'll never work" fears (which are legitimate, I might add).
This "I just can't help myself" thing, I'm calling b.s. on. You had all the support in the world here yesterday and you still couldn't wait until the morning (or even later last nite) to get some feedback.
I'll save my comments for your HUSBAND for later. Right now, the goal was for YOU to remain calm and not go off on him.
I would ordinarily not be in favor of going dark (or even dim) at the stage you guys were at, but your inability to control your emotions and not let him "get" to you is causing further damage each time it happens, so yeah -- I think you need to do a hard-core Harley "Plan B" here, with an intermediary and everything (more on that later). Your husband may or not respond to that, but I think it gives you your best chance.
Sorry, but I calls 'em as I sees 'em, and coddling you isn't going to help your marriage.
