Well Bunches , Ive been living a nightmare for about 4 months .But I truly love my wife even though i have caught her IN BED!! with OM and ive caught her kissing OM #2 is his truck . Which I then proceeded to pull him out of the truck and pummell him mercilessly until he cried like a baby . Did that help my sitch doing that . Absolutely not . Ive seen her with OM# 1 and OM# 2 since . Now I believe there is an OM # 3. I asked her if she wants to be single and she said no , but shes playing the single game . OM#1 and #2 are married but # 3 is single . She tells me shes going out for coffee then I know exactly whats shes doing . How can I still love this woman after that ???? I dont know . So im not trying to minimise anybody elses sitch but sometimes you can see that maybe your sitch is not nearly as bad as someone eles and it will help you make decisions about your own . Hats off to you , you are a strong fellow in wanting to save your marriage


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )