I went back to work last year from Christmas until earlier this year. She asked me to stop working because between the job and the kids I was never home and the money I made just went to after school care. She gets overwhelmed when dealing with the boys. She doesn't drive so it's just me when it comes to the kids and her. I know a large part of the problems arouse out of poor communication between the two of us. When she wanted to take the kids to the parks he felt she couldn't because I didn't want to but the reason would be the kids didn't want to go and I was exhausted. I am working with her to communicate better and I do ask for clarification but try not to put pressure on her and let her go at her own pace. We had become a splintered family and that is what I am trying to repair now. I know it's going to take forever but she is worth it.
I would love to go to some type of therapy with her but she doesn't want to talk to anyone
