2nd time around part 3

[NotAgainPlease]

Matt,
I am sure you are right he does not want to need me. Because that's what he is running from, me!!! I'm sure it drives him crazy to need me and/or even want to talk to me.
This is not the first time he asked me to help and then didnt have me do it. Because he wants to be able to do it on his own.

The last thing he wants now is to know I am right about any thing. lol

On the other hand he wants me to need him!!
Even after I told him I didn't need him to take the trailer he said I don't mind dumping it for you. He has always offered to do things for me around the house or whatever and I keep telling him, thank you but I can do it. Guilt?
It's part of our co dependency problem.

I have contact with gf stbxh. He told me to tell my H Gf's car needs fixing. My H Said I'm not fixing her car. It's not my problem! The next week he took my car in to be fixed. I'm sure she wouldn't be too happy!?
I'm thinking the fantasy is wearing off not doing it for him anymore. More and more signs of this. However, she thinks they will be together forever..
Doesn't mean he won't find someone new though....
For the most part now I don't see H or try to talk very little in the past month, like I said in prior post. I'm trying to keep it this way for now. When he calls I always try to hang up first.